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Your Rights Are My Rights: Stories of Love, Dignity, and a Life Worth Living

By Jasminko Bijelić  Published On 06/04/2026

Rainy weekends can be quiet, a bit gray, as if time slows down and invites us to look a little deeper into the people around us. It is in such moments that we often notice what slips by in the hustle and bustle of everyday life – stories that are warm, real, and worth paying attention to.

This is one of those stories.

You may have seen films in which people with disabilities are portrayed as strong, complex and deeply emotional. Stories like those from the movie "Intouchables", where friendship breaks all barriers, or "The Theory of Everything", where love and partnership endure despite challenges, or "Me Before You", which opens up questions of choice, dignity and closeness. These stories touch us because they are real - not because they are idealized, but because we recognize the universal human needs in them.

And such stories exist all around us.

In a society that still too often sees through the prism of limitations, it is easy to forget how multifaceted, interesting and full of life people actually are. People with disabilities are often seen through what they “cannot do”, and much less often through what they are – people who love, who laugh, who plan, who dream and who fulfill their lives in ways that are equally rich, and often deeper.

Maybe you've met them before, but haven't stopped long enough to really get to know them. Those who know how to find joy in the little things. Those who have patience that isn't learned from books, but from life. Those who know the value of a hug, the meaning of understanding, and how strong love is when it's not taken for granted, but built every day.

There are men and women who, despite all the obstacles society places on them, have built families. Who have fallen in love – and been loved by someone else. Who have become parents, partners, supports. Their stories are not an exception to be observed with wonder, but a reminder of what we all have in common – the need to belong, to be loved and to love.

Their value does not begin and end with disability. It is reflected in their words, their choices, their ability to survive, to grow and to give to others. In their courage to be who they are in a world that often tries to reduce them to a label.

How many times have we, perhaps unconsciously, thought that some things are “harder to access” or “less realistic” for people with disabilities? Love, intimacy, family, a fulfilling private life. And the truth is simple – these are not privileges reserved for some, but basic human experiences that belong to everyone.

There is also something we often forget – that every person has the right to be accepted as they are, without having to fit into other people's standards or expectations. That diversity is not an obstacle, but an asset that makes us more complete as a society. That equality does not mean that we are the same, but that everyone has equal value and an equal opportunity to live with dignity.

In a world where prejudice still exists, it is important to constantly remind ourselves that no one should be excluded or sidelined. That every woman and every man deserves to be seen, heard and respected. Especially women with disabilities, who often face multiple layers of misunderstanding, and who carry within themselves incredible strength, tenderness and resilience.

It is also important how we talk about people, how we present them and how we see them. The images we share, the stories we tell, the way we react - all of this shapes the society in which we live. When we choose to see the person before the label, then we create space for acceptance, for meeting, for real closeness.

Because everyone has the right to their own life, to choose where and how they will live, with whom they will share their everyday lives, whom they will love. The right to privacy, to dignity, to a space in which they can feel safe and free.

And in those small, everyday choices – where to live, who to love, how to spend your days – lies true freedom.

People with disabilities are not only an inspiration because they overcome obstacles. They are an inspiration because they live. Because they choose joy. Because, despite everything, they remain open to people, to relationships, to closeness.

Maybe this rainy weekend is the right time to remember that. To slow down and see the people around us a little more clearly. To recognize value where society still doesn't see it enough.

Because people with disabilities are not stories about limitations.

They are stories about life.

Read stories about the rights of people with disabilities that inspire and encourage action at the link: Your rights are my rights too.



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